DEAR DANCING FOOL: Your feelings are your feelings. Crushes are harmless when they're not acted upon; thus, they don't mean your marriage is on the verge of ending. Being close with your sister is a good thing if its within limits. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. It can feel awkward to check on the one you love and trust with all your heart. Fantasising about having sex with ALL of her sisters given how unlikely that is to ever happen - restricts the thought to an entertaining daydream and is much less threatening than focusing on just one sister, which could be much more hurtful. Hell, Ill be damned if Im in a relationship with someone, and married to them, and they are always choosing their sibling over me. Yes she is my wife's sister, which obviously makes things difficult. Most of the time its not our fantasies that are a problem, but other peoples reactions to those fantasies including our own guilt and shame that cause the issues. When you do that, you end up not saying what you intended to say and your husband ends up not listening to you. You will feel broken from within and disgusted. Telltale Signs that your husband has another person of interest in their life include;- They withdraw from you emotionally and become more secretive with a lot of things.- They arent as affectionate and thoughtful as they used to be.- Theres one person they talk about consistently, whether seriously or casually. Im certain they told one another that no matter what happens or whats going on that they will never let anyone come into their lives and replace the other. One reason why you should give your husband the benefit of doubt is to avoid escalating matters or to prevent negative accusations. Though disguised in a bit of banter-like rap, a mega star like Kanye is much more likely to get away with it as a compliment, reflecting Kims ego and pride, than the rest of us, who are likely to get a very different reception! He would want to spend most of his time with your sister. She has taken on the role of his mother, and may feel the need to be protective of him, which comes across as overbearing, overprotective, and incestuous. If you can settle that, the services of the other woman will no longer be required. Men tend to compartmentalize how they feel. If I say anything about it, he jumps all over me, defending her. Write a list of what you cannot live with, in the marriage. If you can relate to most points above, something is happening with your husband and your marriage. You dont want lose your husband, Yes! And when you ask to take a look at his expenses, hell accuse you of not having trust in him. Dear Abby: My wife wont drive and says I should take her to work everyday, Dear Abby: My hairstylists obsession has become really annoying, Ask Amy: My dad is demanding I tell lies about our family, Harriette Cole: My husband has become insufferable about what we should eat. Do not hesitate to drop your questions in the comment session. He didn't want to act on them, and he didn't know what to do, so he wrote about his feelings. Worst is, he might not be aware that hes already treating you badly. What Should I Do When My Crush Doesn't Feel the Same About Me? He sees a reason to get offended at the way you talk, the way you look, your sitting position and other similar things. The Husband Is Told On Saturday, Aug. 27, Mr. Bryant returned home. 6 Signs Your Husband Is Attracted To Another Woman - Her Norm It's My husband is attracted to my sister! - Times of India When you sort this out then you are a step to ending your husbands relationship with the other woman. We are not close with our new in-laws, who live out of state. After all, some of those qualities that attracted you to your wife and kept you together will very probably be seen in her siblings too. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click this link: thesun.co.uk/editorial-complaints/, Kim, second from right, with sisters Khloe Kardashian, Kendall Jenner, Kourtney Kardashian and Kylie Jenner, The sisters hang out at Kylie's birthday party this week, Psychologist Jo Hemmings says Kanye's feelings are a compliment, Kanye arrives at an LA studio to appear on the Jimmy Kimmel show last week, managed to raise eyebrows earlier this week when he revealed he still watched porn, 20 tell tale signs he could be playing away, Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO). It's become an issue for me and it needs to stop now." This Is What It's Like to Fall in Love With Your Brother. He said she too is in love with him, that they have really tried to avoid it, but now, they are both madly in love and cant live without each other. When people ask me for advice to help save their failing marriages, I always recommend relationship expert and divorce coach Brad Browning. It may be uncomforting, and/or he may feel ashamed by showing affection to another woman.