You have difficulty combining the power of this great Love with your sense of empowerment in the relationship. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this bonding conflict, when you are together. But to have any meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships. Harriet Lerner. It is also important to attend to the heart of your love and care for each other. You value the intensity and power of your ideas and conversations. There is an easy and sensual flow of energy together. This should be a long term relationship where you are seen as a strong partnership and can foster other partnerships. However, the negative manifestation of Lilith is more likely if you havent integrated it yet. You will learn profound & life-changing lessons together. Repressing these feelings will only prove disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth. Planets or points in the seventh house tend to be in the shadow. You can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. You will include others in your exchange of ideas and learning. Neptune in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart: This relationship will have a lot of heartfelt feelings. However within the relationship this is where your desire and love burn and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You are then able to weave those together with your involvement in building together some sort of structure, whether home, family or business. You share similar values in beauty and the arts but at times may find it challenging to integrate your independent and freedom needs. This relationship feels fated in developing a sense of security and trust in your love for each other. As vulnerable humans we need to work together and partnerships are a foundation of our relationships with others. Posts: 47 . The negative side of this placement is power struggles in the relationship, both partners want things to be their way. You may talk about the ideal aspects of loving each other and the boundaries between you that contribute to loving each other. It is up to the individuals whether the challenges within their relationships are workable and ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than they are worth. In the first one takes place the Earth, and the second one is interpreted in astrology as Lilith. Others may be involved in this dynamic within the relationship. Safety and security are big issues for you when you are together. These lessons will tend to be focused on this erotic Love. There is a great ease between your philosophy and how the relationship expresses itself. This relationship has a strong soul to soul partnership, and you feel linked together at the roots of your being. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas and balancing them with your independence, you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing. This care comes in the form of encouraging freedom and independent action within the relationship.